The Gateway Drug to Infidelity

ShareTweet Opinions will differ. Some women will be flabbergasted at the thought, but many others are more accepting. The majority see it as an innocent substitution for when they cannot please their spouse, or perhaps even a great way to…

“I Dont Want to Raise Church Kids”

ShareTweet There’s a BIG difference between being a church-goer and a true Christian. Growing up in church can certainly have its perks, as it can act as a conduit by which you get to know and experience the love of…

On Fundamental Sadness and the Deeper Magic

ShareTweet Some call it pessimism. Unspiritual. A sickness best treated with peppy music and cliché-riddled Christianese. They caution and guard against sadness, considering it a rabbit hole (or a worm hole) leading nowhere good. Others call it holy. Jeremiah-ish. Defending…

When You Hear Gods Voice Wrong

ShareTweet I don’t know where you’re at with your Christian walk. Maybe you’re a seasoned believer, but this post might settle some misgivings. Perhaps you’re a new believer and this post will give you hope. Or you could even be…

10 Things Your Wife Wont Tell You She Needs

ShareTweet I remember watching “What Women Want” not long after its release in 2001. The movie chronicles a man, Nick Marshall, who receives a fresh perspective on women after a fluke accident. And by “fresh perspective,” I mean he has…

When Youre Just Not a Gentle Man

ShareTweet Gentleness is not a strength of mine. I’m often referred to as ‘blunt’ and ‘harsh.’ The Bible says that Jesus was full of both grace and truth; I always tell people that the truth comes easy for me, but…

Why You Dont Need a Vacation

ShareTweet I just got back from a few days at the beach. It’s my favorite place. Near the ocean I just feel such peace. Over twenty years ago, I stared at the horizon of the ocean and God spoke to…